The Education of the Child, by Ellen Key
Published: G.P. Putnam's Sons, New York-London, 1909
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THE EDUCATION OF THE CHILD
BY
ELLEN KAROLINE SOFIA KEY
G.P. PUTNAM'S SONS
NEW YORK-LONDON
1909
GOETHE showed long ago in his Werther a clear understanding of the
significance of individualistic and psychological training, an
appreciation which will mark the century of the child. In this work he
shows how the future power of will lies hidden in the characteristics of
the child, and how along with every fault of the child an uncorrupted germ
capable of producing good is enclosed. "Always," he says, "I repeat the
golden words of the teacher of mankind, 'if ye do not become as one of
these,' and now, good friend, those who are our equals, whom we should
look upon as our models, we treat as subjects; they should have no will of
their own; do we have none? Where is our prerogative? Does it consist in
the fact that we are older and more experienced? Good God of Heaven! Thou
seest old and young children, nothing else. And in whom Thou hast more
joy, Thy Son announced ages ago. But people believe in Him and do not hear
Him -- that, too, is an old trouble, and they model their children after
themselves." The same criticism might be applied to our present educators,
who constantly have on their tongues such words as evolution,
individuality, and natural tendencies, but do not heed the new
commandments in which they say they believe. They continue to educate as
if they believed still in the natural depravity of man, in original sin,
which may be bridled, tamed, suppressed, but not changed. The new belief
is really equivalent to Goethe's thoughts given above, i.e., that almost
every fault is but a hard shell enclosing the germ of virtue. Even men of
modern times still follow in education the old rule of medicine, that evil
must be driven out by evil, instead of the new method, the system of
allowing nature quietly and slowly to help itself, taking care only that
the surrounding conditions help the work of nature. This is education.
Neither harsh nor tender parents suspect the truth expressed by Carlyle
when he said that the marks of a noble and original temperament are wild,
strong emotions, that must be controlled by a discipline as hard as steel.
People either strive to root out passions altogether, or they abstain from
teaching the child to get them under control. To suppress the real
personality of the child, and to supplant it with another personality
continues to be a pedagogical crime common to those who announce loudly
that education should only develop the real individual nature of the
child.
They are still not convinced that egoism on the part of the child is
justified. Just as little are they convinced of the possibility that evil
can be changed into good.
Education must be based on the certainty that faults cannot be atoned for,
or blotted out, but must always have their consequences. At the same time,
there is the other certainty that through progressive evolution, by slow
adaptation to the conditions of environment they may be transformed. Only
when this stage is reached will education begin to be a science and art.
We will then give up all belief in the miraculous effects of sudden
interference; we shall act in the psychological sphere in accordance with
the principle of the indestructibility of matter. We shall never believe
that a characteristic of the soul can be destroyed. There are but two
possibilities. Either it can be brought into subjection or it can be
raised up to a higher plane.
Madame de Sta'l's words show much insight when she says that only the
people who can play with children are able to educate them. For success in
training children the first condition is to become as a child oneself, but
this means no assumed childishness, no condescending baby-talk that the
child immediately sees through and deeply abhors. What it does mean is to
be as entirely and simply taken up with the child as the child himself is
absorbed by his life. It means to treat the child as really one's equal,
that is, to show him the same consideration, the same kind confidence one
shows to an adult. It means not to influence the child to be what we
ourselves desire him to become but to be influenced by the impression of
what the child himself is; not to treat the child with deception, or by
the exercise of force, but with the seriousness and sincerity proper to
his own character.
Somewhere Rousseau says that all education has failed in that nature does
not fashion parents as educators nor children for the sake of education.
What would happen if we finally succeeded in following the directions of
nature, and recognised that the great secret of education lies hidden in
the maxim, "do not educate"? Not leaving the child in peace is the
greatest evil of present-day methods of training children. Education is
determined to create a beautiful world externally and internally in which
the child can grow. To let him move about freely in this world until he
comes into contact with the permanent boundaries of another's right will
be the end of the education of the future. Only then will adults really
obtain a deep insight into the souls of children, now an almost
inaccessible kingdom. For it is a natural instinct of self-preservation
which causes the child to bar the educator from his innermost nature.
There is the person who asks rude questions; for example, what is the
child thinking about? a question which almost invariably is answered with
a black or a white lie. The child must protect himself from an educator
who would master his thoughts and inclinations, or rudely handle them, who
without consideration betrays or makes ridiculous his most sacred
feelings, who exposes faults or praises characteristics before strangers,
or even uses an open-hearted, confidential confession as an occasion for
reproof at another time.
The statement that no human being learns to understand another, or at
least to be pa- tient with another, is true above all of the intimate
relation of child and parent in which, understanding, the deepest
characteristic of love, is almost always absent.
Parents do not see that during the whole life the need of peace is never
greater than in the years of childhood, an inner peace under all external
unrest. The child has to enter into relations with his own infinite world,
to conquer it, to make it the object of his dreams. But what does he
experience? Obstacles, interference, corrections, the whole livelong day.
The child is always required to leave something alone, or to do something
different, to find something different, or want something different from
what he does, or finds, or wants. He is always shunted off in another
direction from that towards which his own character is leading him. All of
this is caused by our tenderness, vigilance, and zeal, in directing,
advising, and helping the small specimen of humanity to become a complete
example in a model series.
I have heard a three-year-old child characterised as "trying" because he
wanted to go into the woods, whereas the nursemaid wished to drag him into
the city. Another child of six years was disciplined because she had been
naughty to a playmate and had called her a little pig, -- a natural
appellation for one who was always dirty. These are typical examples of
how the sound instincts of the child are dulled. It was a spontaneous
utterance: of the childish heart when a small boy, after an account of the
heaven of good children, asked his mother whether she did not believe
that, after he had been good a whole week in heaven, he might be allowed
to go to hell on Saturday evening to play with the bad little boys there.
The child felt in its innermost consciousness that he had a right to be
naughty, a fundamental right which is accorded to adults; and not only to
be naughty, but to be naughty in peace, to be left to the dangers and joys
of naughtiness.
To call forth from this "unvirtue" the complimentary virtue is to overcome
evil with good. Otherwise we overcome natural strength by weak means and
obtain artificial virtues which will not stand the tests which life
imposes.
It seems simple enough when we say that we must overcome evil with good,
but practically no process is more involved, or more tedious, than to find
actual means to accomplish this end. It is much easier to say what one
shall not do than what one must do to change self-will into strength of
character, slyness into prudence, the desire to please into amiability,
restlessness into personal initiative. It can only be brought about by
recognising that evil, in so far as it is not atavistic or perverse, is as
natural and indispensable as the good, and that it becomes a permanent
evil only through its one-sided supremacy.
The educator wants the child to be finished at once, and perfect. He
forces upon the child an unnatural degree of self-mastery, a devotion to
duty, a sense of honour, habits that adults get out of with astonishing
rapidity. Where the faults of children are concerned, at home and in
school, we strain at gnats, while children daily are obliged to swallow
the camels of grown people.
The art of natural education consists in ignoring the faults of children
nine times out of ten, in avoiding immediate interference, which is
usually a mistake, and devoting one's whole vigilance to the control of
the environment in which the child is growing up, to watching the
education which is allowed to go on by itself. But educators who, day in
and day out, are consciously transforming the environment and themselves
are still a rare product. Most people live on the capital and interest of
an education, which perhaps once made them model children, but has
deprived them of the desire for educating themselves. Only by keeping
oneself in constant process of growth, under the constant influence of the
best things in one's own age, does one become a companion half-way good
enough for one's children.
To bring up a child means carrying one's soul in one's hand, setting one's
feet on a narrow path, it means never placing ourselves in danger of
meeting the cold look on the part of the child that tells us without words
that he finds us insufficient and unreliable. It means the humble
realisation of the truth that the ways of injuring the child are infinite,
while the ways of being useful to him are few. How seldom does the
educator remember that the child, even at four or five years of age, is
making experiments with adults, seeing through them, with marvellous
shrewdness making his own valuations and reacting sensitively to each
impression. The slightest mistrust, the smallest unkindness, the least act
of injustice or contemptuous ridicule, leave wounds that last for life in
the finely strung soul of the child. While on the other side unexpected
friendliness, kind advances, just indignation, make quite as deep an
impression on those senses which people term as soft as wax but treat as
if they were made of cowhide.
Relatively most excellent was the old education which consisted solely in
keeping oneself whole, pure, and honourable. For it did not at least
depreciate personality, although it did not form it. It would be well if
but a hundredth part of the pains now taken by parents were given to
interference with the life of the child and the rest of the ninety and
nine employed in leading, without interference, in acting as an
unforeseen, an invisible providence through which the child obtains
experience, from which he may draw his own conclusions. The present
practice is to impress one's own discoveries, opinions, and principles on
the child by constantly directing his actions. The last thing to be
realised by the educator is that he really has before him an entirely new
soul, a real self whose first and chief right is to think over the things
with which he comes in contact. By a new soul he understands only a new
generation of an old humanity to be treated with a fresh dose of the old
remedy. We teach the new souls not to steal, not to lie, to save their
clothes, to learn their lessons, to economise their money, to obey
commands, not to contradict older people, say their prayers, to fight
occasionally in order to be strong. But who teaches the new souls to
choose for themselves the path they must tread? Who thinks that the desire
for this path of their own can be so profound that a hard or even mild
pressure towards uniformity can make the whole of childhood a torment.
The child comes into life with the inheritance of the preceding members of
the race; and this inheritance is modified by adaptation to the
environment. But the child shows also individual variations from the type
of the species, and if his own character is not to disappear during the
process of adaptation, all self-determined development of energy must be
aided in every way and only indirectly influenced by the teacher, who
should understand how to combine and emphasise the results of this
development.
Interference on the part of the educator, whether by force or persuasion,
weakens this development if it does not destroy it altogether. The habits
of the household, and the child's habits in it must be absolutely fixed if
they are to be of any value. Amiel truly says that habits are principles
which have become instincts, and have passed over into flesh and blood. To
change habits, he continues, means to attack life in its very essence, for
life is only a web of habits.
Why does everything remain essentially the same from generation to
generation? Why do highly civilised Christian people continue to plunder
one another and call it exchange, to murder one another en masse, and call
it nationalism, to oppress one another and call it statesmanship?
Because in every new generation the impulses supposed to have been rooted
out by discipline in the child, break forth again, when the struggle for
existence -- of the individual in society, of the society in the life of
the state -- begins. These passions are not transformed by the prevalent
education of the day, but only repressed. Practically this is the reason
why not a single savage passion has been overcome in humanity. Perhaps man-
eating may be mentioned as an exception. But what is told of European ship
companies or Siberian prisoners shows that even this impulse, under
conditions favourable to it, may be revived, although in the majority of
people a deep physical antipathy to man-eating is innate. Conscious
incest, despite similar deviations, must also be physically contrary to
the majority, and in a number of women, modesty -- the unity between body
and soul in relation to love -- is an incontestable provision of nature.
So too a minority would find it physically impossible to murder or steal.
With this list I have exhausted everything which mankind, since its
conscious history began, has really so intimately acquired that the
achievement is passed on in its flesh and blood. Only this kind of
conquest can really stand up against temptation in every form.
A deep physiological truth is hidden in the use of language when one
speaks of unchained passions; the passions, under the prevailing system of
education, are really only beasts of prey imprisoned in cages.
While fine words are spoken about individual development, children are
treated as if their personality had no purpose of its own, as if they were
made only for the pleasure, pride, and comfort of their parents; and as
these aims are best advanced when children become like every one else,
people usually begin by attempting to make them respectable and useful
members of society.
But the only correct starting point, so far as a child's education in
becoming a social human being is concerned, is to treat him as such, while
strengthening his natural disposition to become an individual human being.
The new educator will, by regularly ordered experience, teach the child by
degrees his place in the great orderly system of existence; teach him his
responsibility towards his environment. But in other respects, none of the
individual characteristics of the child expressive of his life will be
suppressed, so long as they do not injure the child himself, or others.
The right balance must be kept between Spencer's definition of life as an
adaptation to surrounding conditions, and Nietzsche's definition of it as
the will to secure power.
In adaptation, imitation certainly plays a great role, but individual
exercise of power is just as important. Through adaptation life attains a
fixed form; through exercise of power, new factors.
Thoughtful people, as I have already stated, talk a good deal about
personality. But they are, nevertheless, filled with doubts when their
children are not just like all other children; when they cannot show in
their offspring all the ready-made virtues required by society. And so
they drill their children, repressing in childhood the natural instincts
which will have freedom when they are grown. People still hardly realise
how new human beings are formed; therefore the old types constantly repeat
themselves in the same circle, -- the fine young men, the sweet girls, the
respectable officials, and so on. And new types with higher ideals, --
travellers on unknown paths, thinkers of yet unthought thoughts, people
capable of the crime of inaugurating new ways, -- such types rarely come
into existence among those who are well brought up.
Nature herself, it is true, repeats the main types constantly. But she
also constantly makes small deviations. In this way different species,
even of the human race, have come into existence. But man himself does not
yet see the significance of this natural law in his own higher
development. He wants the feelings, thoughts, and judgments already
stamped with approval to be reproduced by each new generation. So we get
no new individuals, but only more or less prudent, stupid, amiable, or bad-
tempered examples of the genus man. The still living instincts of the ape,
double, in the case of man, the effect of heredity. Conservatism is for
the present stronger in mankind than the effort to produce new types. But
this last characteristic is the most valuable. The educator should do
anything but advise the child to do what everybody does. He should rather
rejoice when he sees in the child tendencies to deviation. Using other
people's opinion as a standard results in subordinating one's self to
their will. So we become a part of the great mass, led by the Superman
through the strength of his will, a will which could not have mastered
strong personalities. It has been justly remarked that individual peoples,
like the English, have attained the greatest political and social freedom,
because the personal feeling of independence is far in excess of freedom
in a legal form. Accordingly legal freedom has been constantly growing.
For the progress of the whole of the species, as well as of society, it is
essential that education shall awake the feeling of independence; it
should invigorate and favour the disposition to deviate from the type in
those cases where the rights of others are not affected, or where
deviation is not simply the result of the desire to draw attention to
oneself. The child should be given the chance to declare conscientiously
his independence of a customary usage, of an ordinary feeling, for this is
the foundation of the education of an individual, as well as the basis of
a collective conscience, which is the only kind of conscience men now
have. What does having an individual conscience mean? It means submitting
voluntarily to an external law, attested and found good by my own
conscience. It means unconditionally heeding the unwritten law, which I
lay upon myself, and following this inner law even when I must stand alone
against the whole world.
It is a frequent phenomenon, we can almost call it a regular one, that it
is original natures, particularly talented beings, who are badly treated
at home and in school. No one considers the sources of conduct in a child
who shows fear or makes a noise, or who is absorbed in himself, or who has
an impetuous nature. Mothers and teachers show in this their pitiable
incapacity for the most elementary part in the art of education, that is,
to be able to see with their own eyes, not with pedagogical doctrines in
their head.
I naturally expect in the supporters of society, with their conventional
morality, no appreciation of the significance of the child's putting into
exercise his own powers. Just as little is this to be expected of those
Christian believers who think that human nature must be brought to
repentance and humility, and that the sinful body, the unclean beast, must
be tamed with the rod, -- a theory which the Bible is brought to support.
I am only addressing people who can think new thoughts and consequently
should cease using old methods of education. This class may reply that the
new ideas in education cannot be carried out. But the obstacle is simply
that their new thoughts have not made them into new men; the old man in
them has neither repose, nor time, nor patience, to form his own soul, and
that of the child, according to the new thoughts.
Those who have "tried Spencer and failed," because Spencer's method
demands intelligence and patience, contend that the child must be taught
to obey, that truth lies in the old rule, "As the twig is bent the tree is
inclined."
Bent is the appropriate word, bent according to the old ideal which
extinguishes personality, teaches humility and obedience. But the new
ideal is that man, to stand straight and upright, must not be bent at all
only supported, and so prevented from being deformed by weakness.
One often finds, in the modern system of training, the crude desire for
mastery still alive and breaking out when the child is obstinate. "You
won't!" say father and mother; "I will teach you whether you have a will.
I will soon drive self-will out of you." But nothing can be driven out of
the child; on the other hand, much can be scourged into it which should be
kept far away.
Only during the first few years of life is a kind of drill necessary, as a
pre-condition to a higher training. The child is then in such a high
degree controlled by sensation, that a slight physical pain or pleasure is
often the only language he fully understands. Consequently for some
children discipline is an indispensable means of enforcing the practice of
certain habits. For other children, the stricter methods are entirely
unnecessary even at this early age, and as soon as the child can remember
a blow, he is too old to receive one.
The child must certainly learn obedience, and, besides, this obedience
must be absolute. If such obedience has become habitual from the tenderest
age, a look, a word, an intonation is enough to keep the child straight.
The dissatisfaction of those who are bringing him up can only be made
effective when it falls as a shadow in the usual sunny atmosphere of home.
And if people refrain from laying the foundations of obedience while the
child is small, and his naughtiness is entertaining, Spencer's method
undoubtedly will be found unsuitable after the child is older and his
caprice disagreeable.
With a very small child, one should not argue, but act consistently and
immediately. The effort of training should be directed at an early period
to arrange the experiences in a consistent whole of impressions according
to Rousseau and Spencer's recommendation. So certain habits will become
impressed in the flesh and blood of the child.
Constant crying on the part of small children must be corrected when it
has become clear that the crying is not caused by illness or some other
discomfort, -- discomforts against which crying is the child's only
weapon. Crying is now ordinarily corrected by blows. But this does not
master the will of the child, and only produces in his soul the idea that
older people strike small children, when small children cry. This is not
an ethical idea. But when the crying child is immediately isolated, and it
is explained to him at the same time that whoever annoys others must not
be with them; if this isolation is the absolute result, and cannot be
avoided, in the child's mind a basis is laid for the experience that one
must be alone when one makes oneself unpleasant or disagreeable. In both
cases the child is silenced by interfering with his comfort; but one type
of discomfort is the exercise of force on his will; the other produces
slowly the self-mastery of the will, and accomplishes this by a good
motive. One method encourages a base emotion, fear. The other corrects the
will in a way that combines it with one of the most important experiences
of life. The one punishment keeps the child on the level of the animal.
The other impresses upon him the great principle of human social life,
that when our pleasure causes displeasure to others, other people hinder
us from following our pleasures; or withdraw themselves from the exercise
of our self-will. It is necessary that small children should accustom
themselves to good behaviour at table, etc. If every time an act of
naughtiness is repeated, the child is immediately taken away, he will soon
learn that whoever is disagreeable to others must remain alone. Thus a
right application is made of a right principle. Small children, too, must
learn not to touch what belongs to other people. If every time anything is
touched without permission, children lose their freedom of action one way
or another, they soon learn that a condition of their free action is not
to injure others.
It is quite true, as a young mother remarked, that empty Japanese rooms
are ideal places in which to bring up children. Our modern crowded rooms
are, so far as children are concerned, to be condemned. During the year in
which the real education of the child is proceeding by touching, tasting,
biting, feeling, and so on, every moment he is hearing the cry, "Let it
alone." For the temperament of the child as well as for the development of
his powers, the best thing is a large, light nursery, adorned with
handsome lithographs, wood-cuts, and so on, provided with some simple
furniture, where he may enjoy the fullest freedom of movement. But if the
child is there with his parents and is disobedient, a momentary reprimand
is the best means to teach him to reverence the greater world in which the
will of others prevails, the world in which the child certainly can make a
place for himself but must also learn that every place occupied by him has
its limits. If it is a case of a danger, which it is desirable that the
child should really dread, we must allow the thing itself to have an
alarming influence. When a mother strikes a child because he touches the
light, the result is that he does this again when the mother is away. But
let him burn himself with the light, then he is certain to leave it alone.
In riper years when a boy misuses a knife, a toy, or something similar,
the loss of the object for the time being must be the punishment. Most
boys would prefer corporal punishment to the loss of their favourite
possession. But only the loss of it will be a real education through
experience of one of the inevitable rules of life, an experience which
cannot be too strongly impressed.
We hear parents who have begun with Spencer and then have taken to
corporal punishment declare that when children are too small to repair the
clothing which they have torn there must be some other kind of punishment.
But at that age they should not be punished at all for such things. They
should have such simple and strong clothes that they can play freely in
them. Later on, when they can be really careful, the natural punishment
would be to have the child remain at home if he is careless, has spotted
his clothes, or torn them. He must be shown that he must help to put his
clothes in good condition again, or that he will be compelled to buy what
he has destroyed carelessly with money earned by himself. If the child is
not careful, he must stay at home, when ordinarily allowed to go out, or
eat alone if he is too late for meals. It may be said that there are
simple means by which all the important habits of social life may become a
second nature. But it is not possible in all cases to apply Spencer's
method. The natural consequences occasionally endanger the health of the
child, or sometimes are too slow in their action. If it seems necessary to
interfere directly, such action must be consistent, quick, and immutable.
How is it that the child learns very soon that fire burns? Because fire
does so always. But the mother who at one time strikes, at another
threatens, at another bribes the child, first forbids and then immediately
after permits some action; who does not carry out her threat, does not
compel obedience, but constantly gabbles and scolds; who sometimes acts in
one way and just as often in another, has not learned the effective
educational methods of the fire.
The old-fashioned strict training that in its crude way gave to the
character a fixed type rested on its consistent qualities. It was
consistently strict, not as at present a lax hesitation between all kinds
of pedagogical methods and psychological opinions, in which the child is
thrown about here and there like a ball, in the hands of grown people; at
one time pushed forward, then laughed at, then pushed aside, only to be
brought back again, kissed till it, is disgusted, first ordered about, and
then coaxed. A grown man would become insane if joking Titans treated him
for a single day as a child is treated for a year. A child should not be
ordered about, but should be just as courteously addressed as a grown
person in order that he may learn courtesy. A child should never be pushed
into notice, never compelled to endure caresses, never overwhelmed with
kisses, which ordinarily torment him and are often the cause of sexual
hyperesthesia. The child's demonstrations of affection should be
reciprocated when they are sincere, but one's own demonstrations should be
reserved for special occasions. This is one of the many excellent maxims
of training that are disregarded. Nor should the child be forced to
express regret in begging pardon and the like. This is excellent training
for hypocrisy. A small child once had been rude to his elder brother and
was placed upon a chair to repent his fault. When the mother after a time
asked if he was sorry, he answered, "Yes," with emphasis, but as the
mother saw a mutinous sparkle in his eyes she felt impelled to ask, "Sorry
for what?" and the youngster broke out, "Sorry that I did not call him a
liar besides." The mother was wise enough on this occasion, and ever
after, to give up insisting on repentance.
Spontaneous penitence is full of significance, it is a deeply felt desire
for pardon. But an artificial emotion is always and everywhere worthless.
Are you not sorry? Does it make no difference to you that your mother is
ill, your brother dead, your father away from home? Such expressions are
often used as an appeal to the emotions of children. But children have a
right to have feelings, or not have them, and to have them as undisturbed
as grown people. The same holds good of their sympathies and antipathies.
The sensitive feelings of children are constantly injured by lack of
consideration on the part of grown people, their easily stimulated
aversions are constantly being brought out. But the sufferings of children
through the crudeness of their elders belong to an unwritten chapter of
child psychology. Just as there are few better methods of training than to
ask children, when they have behaved unjustly to others, to consider
whether it would be pleasant for them to be treated in that way, so there
is no better corrective for the trainer of children than the habit of
asking oneself, in question small and great, -- Would I consent to be
treated as I have just treated my child? If it were only remembered that
the child generally suffers double as much as the adult, parents would
perhaps learn physical and psychical tenderness without which a child's
life is a constant torment.
As to presents, the same principle holds good as with emotions and marks
of tenderness. Only by example can generous instincts be provoked. Above
all the child should not be allowed to have things which he immediately
gives away. Gifts to a child should always imply a personal requital for
work or sacrifice. In order to secure for children the pleasure of giving
and the opportunity of obtaining small pleasures and enjoyments, as well
as of replacing property of their own or of others which they may have
destroyed, they should at an early age be accustomed to perform seriously
certain household duties for which they receive some small remuneration.
But small occasional services, whether volunteered or asked for by others,
should never be rewarded. Only readiness to serve, without payment,
develops the joy of generosity. When the child wants to give away
something, people should not make a presence of receiving it. This
produces the false conception in his mind that the pleasure of being
generous can be had for nothing. At every step the child should be allowed
to meet the real experiences of life; the thorns should never be plucked
from his roses. This is what is least understood in present-day training.
Thus we see reasonable methods constantly failing. People find themselves
forced to "afflictive" methods which stand in no relation with the
realities of life. I mean, above all, what are still called means of
education, instead of means of torture, -- blows.
Many people of to-day defend blows, maintaining that they are milder means
of punishment than the natural consequences of an act; that blows have the
strongest effect on the memory, which effect becomes permanent through
association of ideas.
But what kinds of association? Is it not with physical pain and shame?
Gradually, step by step, this method of training and discipline has been
superseded in all its forms. The movement to abolish torture,
imprisonment, and corporal punishment failed for a long time owing to the
conviction that they were indispensable as methods of discipline. But the
child, people answer, is still an animal, he must be brought up as an
animal. Those who talk in this way know nothing of children nor of
animals. Even animals can be trained without striking them, but they can
only be trained by men who have become men themselves.
Others come forward with the doctrine that terror and pain have been the
best means of educating mankind, so the child must pursue the same road as
humanity. This is an utter absurdity. We should also, on this theory,
teach our children, as a natural introduction to religion, to practice
fetish worship. If the child is to reproduce all the lower development
stages of the race, he would be practically depressed beneath the level
which he has reached physiologically and psychologically through the
common inheritance of the race. If we have abandoned torture and painful
punishments for adults, while they are retained for children, it is
because we have not yet seen that their soul life so far as a greater and
more subtle capacity for suffering is concerned has made the same progress
as that of adult mankind. The numerous cases of child suicide in the last
decade were often the result of fear of corporal punishment; or have taken
place after its administration. Both soul and body are equally affected by
this practice. Where this is not the result, blows have even more
dangerous consequences. They tend to dull still further the feeling of
shame, to increase the brutality or cowardice of the person punished. I
once heard a child pointed out in a school as being so unruly that it was
generally agreed he would be benefited by a flogging. Then it was
discovered that his father's flogging at home had made him what he was. If
statistics were prepared of ruined sons, those who had been flogged would
certainly be more numerous than those who had been pampered.
Society has gradually given up employing retributive punishments because
people have seen that they neither awaken the feeling of guilt, nor act as
a deterrent, but on the contrary retribution applied by equal to equal
brutalises the ideas of right, hardens the temper, and stimulates the
victim to exercise the same violence towards others that has been endured
by himself. But other rules are applied to the psychological processes of
the child. When a child strikes his small sister the mother strikes him
and believes that he will see and understand the difference between the
blows he gets and those he gives, that he will see that the one is a just
punishment and the other vicious conduct. But the child is a sharp
logician and feels that the action is just the same, although the mother
gives it a different name.
Corporal punishment was long ago admirably described by Comenius, who
compared an educator using this method with a musician striking a badly
tuned instrument with his fist, instead of using his ears and his hands to
put it into tune.
These brutal attacks work on the active sensitive feelings, lacerating and
confusing them. They have no educative power on all the innumerable fine
processes in the life of the child's soul, on their obscurely related
combinations.
In order to give real training, the first thing after the second or third
year is to abandon the very thought of a blow among the possibilities of
education. It is best if parents, as soon as the child is born, agree
never to strike him, for if they once begin with this convenient and easy
method, they continue to use corporal discipline even contrary to their
first intention, because they have failed while using such punishment to
develop the child's intelligence.
If people do not see this it is no more use to speak to them of education
than it would be to talk to a cannibal about the world's peace.
But as these savages in educational matters are often civilised human
beings in other respects, I should like to request them to think over the
development of marriage from the time when man wooed with a club and when
woman was regarded as the soulless property of man, only to be kept in
order by blows, a view which continued to be held until modern times.
Through a thousand daily secret influences, our feelings and ideas have
been so transformed that these crude conceptions have disappeared, to the
great advantage of society and the individual. But it may be hard to
awaken a pedagogical savage to the conviction that, in quite the same way,
a thousand new secret and mighty influences will change our crude methods
of education, when parents once come to see that parenthood must go
through the same transformation as marriage, before it attains to a noble
and complete development.
Only when men realise that whipping a child belongs to the same low stage
of civilisation as beating a woman, or a servant, or as the corporal
punishment of soldiers and criminals, will the first real preparation
begin of the material from which perhaps later an educator may be formed.
Corporal punishment was natural in rough times. The body is tangible; what
affects it has an immediate and perceptible result. The heat of passion is
cooled by the blows it administers; in a certain stage of development
blows are the natural expression of moral indignation, the direct method
by which the moral will impresses itself on beings of lower capacities.
But it has since been discovered that the soul may be impressed by
spiritual means, and that blows are just as demoralising for the one who
gives them as for the one who receives them.
The educator, too, is apt to forget that the child in many cases has as
few moral conceptions as the animal or the savage. To punish for this --
is only a cruelty, and to punish by brutal methods is a piece of
stupidity. It works against the possibility of elevating the child beyond
the level of the beast or the savage. The educator to whose mind flogging
never presents itself, even as an occasional resource, will naturally
direct his whole thought to finding psychological methods of education.
Administering corporal punishment demoralises and stupefies the educator,
for it increases his thoughtlessness, not his patience, his brutality, not
his intelligence.
A small boy friend of mine when four years old received his first
punishment of this kind; happily it was his only one. As his nurse
reminded him in the evening to say his prayers he broke out, "Yes, to-
night I really have something to tell God," and prayed with deep
earnestness, "Dear God, tear mamma's arms out so that she cannot beat me
any more."
Nothing would more effectively further the development of education than
for all flogging pedagogues to meet this fate. They would then learn to
educate with the head instead of with the hand. And as to public
educators, the teachers, their position could be no better raised than by
legally forbidding a blow to be administered in any school under penalty
of final loss of position.
That people who are in other respects intelligent and sensitive continue
to defend flogging, is due to the fact that most educators have only a
very elementary conception of their work. They should constantly keep
before them the feelings and impressions of their own childhood in dealing
with children. The most frequent as well as the most dangerous of the
numerous mistakes made in handling children is that people do not remember
how they felt themselves at a similar age, that they do not regard and
comprehend the feelings of the child from their own past point of view.
The adult laughs or smiles in remembering the punishments and other things
which caused him in his childhood anxious days or nights, which produced
the silent torture of the child's heart, infinite despondency, burning
indignation, lonely fears, outraged sense of justice, the terrible
creations of his imagination, his absurd shame, his unsatisfied thirst for
joy, freedom, and tenderness. Lacking these beneficent memories, adults
constantly repeat the crime of destroying the childhood of the new
generation, -- the only time in life in which the guardian of education
can really be a kindly providence. So strongly do I feel that the
unnecessary sufferings of children are unnatural as well as ignoble that I
experience physical disgust in touching the hand of a human being that I
know has struck a child; and I cannot close my eyes after I have heard a
child in the street threatened with corporal punishment.
Blows call forth the virtues of slaves, not those of freemen. As early as
Walther von der Vogelweide, it was known that the honourable man respects
a word more than a blow. The exercise of physical force delivers the weak
and unprotected into the hands of the strong. A child never believes in
his heart, though he may be brought to acknowledge verbally, that the
blows were due to love, that they were administered because they were
necessary. The child is too keen not to know that such a "must" does not
exist, and that love can express itself in a better way.
Lack of self-discipline, of intelligence, of patience, of personal
effort -- these are the corner-stones on which corporal punishment rests.
I do not now refer to the system of flogging employed by miserable people
year in and year out at home, or, particularly in schools, that of beating
children outrageously, or to the limits of brutality. I do not mean even
the less brutal blows administered by undisciplined teachers and parents,
who avenge themselves in excesses of passion or fatigue or disgust, --
blows which are simply the active expression of a tension of nerves, a
detestable evidence of the want of self-discipline and self-culture. Still
less do I refer to the cruelties committed by monsters, sexual perverts,
whose brutal tendencies are stimulated by their disciplinary power and who
use it to force their victims to silence, as certain criminal trials have
shown.
I am only speaking of conscientious, amiable parents and teachers who,
with pain to themselves, fulfil what they regard as their duty to the
child. These are accustomed to adduce the good effects of corporal
discipline as a proof that it cannot be dispensed with. The child by being
whipped is, they say, not only made good but freed from his evil
character, and shows by his whole being that this quick and summary method
of punishment has done more than talks, and patience, and the slowly
working penalties of experience. Examples are adduced to prove that only
this kind of punishment breaks down obstinacy, cures the habit of lying
and the like. Those who adopt this system do not perceive that they have
only succeeded, through this momentarily effective means, in repressing
the external expression of an evil will. They have not succeeded in
transforming the will itself. It requires constant vigilance, daily self-
discipline, to create an ever higher capacity for the discovery of
intelligent methods. The fault that is repressed is certain to appear on
every occasion when the child dares to show it. The educator who finds in
corporal punishment a short way to get rid of trouble, leads the child a
long way round, if we have the only real development in view, namely that
which gradually strengthens the child's capacity for self-control.
I have never heard a child over three years old threatened with corporal
punishment without noticing that this wonderfully moral method had an
equally bad influence on parents and children. The same can be said of
milder kinds of folly, coaxing children by external rewards. I have seen
some children coaxed to take baths and others compelled by threats. But in
neither case was their courage, or self-control, or strength of will
increased. Only when one is able to make the bath itself attractive is
that energy of will developed that gains a victory over the feeling of
fear or discomfort and produces a real ethical impression, viz., that
virtue is its own reward. Wherever a child is deterred from a bad habit or
fault by corporal punishment, a real ethical result is not reached. The
child has only learnt to fear an unpleasant consequence, which lacks real
connection with the thing itself, a consequence it well knows could have
been absent. Such fear is as far removed as heaven from the conviction
that the good is better than the bad. The child soon becomes convinced
that the disagreeable accompaniment is no necessary result of the action,
that by greater cleverness the punishment might have been avoided. Thus
the physical punishment increases deception not morality. In the history
of humanity the effect of the teaching about hell and fear of hell
illustrates the sort of morality produced in children's souls by corporal
punishment, that inferno of childhood. Only with the greatest trouble,
slowly and unconsciously, is the conviction of the superiority of the good
established. The good comes to be seen as more productive of happiness to
the individual himself and his environment. So the child learns to love
the good. By teaching the child that punishment is a consequence drawn
upon oneself he learns to avoid the cause of punishment.
Despite all the new talk of individuality the greatest mistake in training
children is still that of treating the "child" as an abstract conception,
as an inorganic or personal material to be formed and transformed by the
hands of those who are educating him. He is beaten, and it is thought that
the whole effect of the blow stops at the moment when the child is
prevented from being bad. He has, it is thought, a powerful reminder
against future bad behaviour. People no not suspect that this violent
interference in the physical and psychical life of the child may have
lifelong effects. As far back as forty years ago, a writer showed that
corporal punishment had the most powerful somatic stimulative effects. The
flagellation of the Middle Ages is known to have had such results; and if
I could publish what I have heard from adults as to the effect of corporal
punishment on them, or what I have observed in children, this alone would
be decisive in doing away with such punishment in its crudest form. It
very deeply influences the personal modesty of the child. This should be
preserved above everything as the main factor in the development of the
feeling of purity. The father who punishes his daughter in this way
deserves to see her some day a "fallen woman." He injures her instinctive
feeling of the sanctity of her body, an instinct which even in the case of
a small child can be passionately profound. Only when every infringement
of sanctity (forcible caressing is as bad as a blow) evokes an energetic,
instinctive repulsion, is the nature of the child proud and pure. Children
who strike back when they are punished have the most promising characters
of all.
Numerous are the cases in which bodily punishment can occasion
irremediable damage, not suspected by the person who administers it,
though he may triumphantly declare how the punishment in the specific case
has helped. Most adults feel free to tell how a whipping has injured them
in one way or another, but when they take up the training of their own
children they depend on the effect of such chastisement.
What burning bitterness and desire for vengeance, what canine fawning
flattery, does not corporal punishment call forth. It makes the lazy
lazier, the obstinate more obstinate, the hard, harder. It strengthens
those two emotions, the root of almost all evil in the world, hatred and
fear. And as long as blows are made synonymous with education, both of
these emotions will keep their mastery over men. One of the most frequent
occasions for recourse to this punishment is obstinacy, but what is called
obstinacy is only fear or incapacity. The child repeats a false answer, is
threatened with blows, and again repeats it just because he is afraid not
to say the right thing. He is struck and then answers rightly. This is a
triumph of education; refractoriness is overcome. But what has happened?
Increased fear has led to a strong effort of thought, to a momentary
increase of self-control. The next day the child will very likely repeat
the fault. Where there is real obstinacy on the part of children, I know
of cases when corporal punishment has filled them with the lust to kill,
either themselves or the person who strikes them. On the other hand I know
of others, where a mother has brought an obstinate child to repentance and
self-mastery by holding him quietly and calmly on her knees.
How many untrue confessions have been forced by fear of blows; how much
daring passion for action, spirit of adventure, play of fancy, and
stimulus to discovery has been repressed by this same fear. Even where
blows do not cause lying, they always hinder absolute straightforwardness
and the downright personal courage to show oneself as one is. As long as
the word "blow" is used at all in a home, no perfect honour will be found
in children. So long as the home and the school use this method of
education, brutality will be developed in the child himself at the cost of
humanity. The child uses on animals, on his young brothers and sisters, on
his comrades, the methods applied to himself. He puts in practice the same
argument, that "badness" must be cured with blows. Only children
accustomed to be treated mildly, learn to see that influence can be gained
without using force. To see this is one of man's privileges, sacrificed by
man through descending to the methods of the brute. Only by the child
seeing his teacher always and everywhere abstaining from the use of actual
force, will he come himself to despise force on all those occasions which
do not involve the defence of a weaker person against physical
superiority. The foundation of the desire for war is to be sought for less
in the war games than in the teachers' rod.
To defend corporal discipline, children's own statements are brought in
evidence, they are reported as saying they knew they deserved such
discipline in order to be made good. There is no lower example of
hypocrisy in human nature than this. It is true the child may be sincere
in other cases in saying that he feels that through punishment he has
atoned for a fault which was weighing upon his conscience. But this is
really the foundation of a false system of ethics, the kind which still
continues to be preached as Christian, namely; that a fault may be atoned
for by sufferings which are not directly connected with the fault. The
basis of the new morality is just the opposite as I have already shown. It
teaches that no fault can be atoned for, that no one can escape the
results of his actions in any way.
Untruthfulness belongs to the faults which the teacher thinks he must most
frequently punish with blows. But there is no case in which this method is
more dangerous.
When the much-needed guide-book for parents is published, the well-known
story of George Washington and the hatchet must appear in it, accompanied
by the remark which a clever ten-year-old child added to the anecdote: "It
is no trouble telling the truth when one has such a kind father."
I formerly divided untruthfulness into unwilling, shameless, and
imaginative lies. A short time ago I ran across a much better division of
lying; first "cold" lies, that is, fully conscious untruthfulness which
must be punished, and "hot" lies; the expression of an excited temperament
or of a vigorous fancy. I agree with the author of this distinction that
the last should not be punished but corrected, though not with a pedantic
rule of thumb measure, based on how much it exceeds or falls short of
truth. It is to be cured by ridicule, a dangerous method of education in
general, but useful when one observes that this type of untruthfulness
threatens to develop into real untrustworthiness. In dealing with these
faults we are very strict towards children, so strict that no lawyer, no
politician, no journalist, no poet, could exercise his profession if the
same standard were applied to them as to children.
The white lie is, as a French scientist has shown, partly caused by pure
morbidness, partly through some defect in the conception. It is due to an
empty space, a dead point in memory, or in consciousness, that produces a
defective idea or gives one no idea at all of what has happened. In the
affairs of everyday life the adults are often mistaken as to their
intentions or acts. They may have forgotten about their actions, and it
requires a strong effort of memory to call them back into their minds; or
they suggest to themselves that they have done, or not done, something. In
all of these cases, if they were forced to give a distinct answer, they
would lie. In every case of this kind, where a child is concerned, the lie
is assumed to be a conscious one, and when on being submitted to a strict
cross-examination, he hesitates, becomes confused, and blushes, it is
looked upon as a proof that he knows he has been telling an untruth,
although as a rule there has been no instance of untruthfulness, except
the finally extorted confession from the child that he has lied. Yet in
all these complicated psychological problems, corporal punishment is
treated as a solution.
The child who never hears lying at home, who does not see exaggerated
weight placed on small, merely external things, who is not made cowardly
by fear, who hears conscious lies always spoken of with contempt, will get
out of the habit of untruthfulness simply by psychological means. First he
will find that untruthfulness causes astonishment, and a repetition of it,
scorn and lack of confidence. But these methods should not be applied to
untruthfulness caused by distress or by richness of imagination; or to
such cases as originate from the obscure mental ideas noted above, ideas
whose connection with one another the child cannot make clear to himself.
The cold untruth on the other hand, must be punished; first by going over
it with the child, then letting him experience its effect in lack of
confidence, which will only be restored when the child shows decided
improvement in this regard. It is of the greatest importance to show
children full and unlimited confidence, even though one quietly maintains
an attitude of alert watchfulness; for continuous and undeserved mistrust
is just as demoralising as blind and easy confidence.
No one who has been beaten for lying learns by it to love truth. The
accuracy of this principle is illustrated by adults who despise corporal
punishment in their childhood yet continue to tell untruths by word and
deed. Fear may keep the child from technical untruth, but fear also
produces untrustworthiness. Those who have been beaten in childhood for
lying have often suffered a serious injury immeasurably greater than the
direct lie. The truest men I ever knew lie voluntarily and involuntarily;
while others who might never be caught in a lie are thoroughly false. This
corruption of personality begins frequently at the tenderest age under the
influence of early training. Children are given untrue motives, half-true
information; are threatened, admonished. The child's will, thought, and
feeling are oppressed; against this treatment dishonesty is the readiest
method of defence. In this way educators who make truth their highest aim,
make children untruthful. I watched a child who was severely punished for
denying something he had unconsciously done, and noted how under the
influence of this senseless punishment he developed extreme dissimulation.
Truthfulness requires above everything unbroken determination; and many
nervous little liars need nourishing food and life in the open air, not
blows. A great artist, one of the few who live wholly according to the
modern principles of life, said to me on one occasion: "My son does not
know what a lie is, nor what a blow is. His step-brother, on the other
hand, lied when he came into our house; but lying did not work in the
atmosphere of calm and freedom. After a year the habit disappeared by
itself, only because it always met with deep astonishment."
This makes me, in passing, note one of the other many mistakes of
education, viz., the infinite trouble taken in trying to do away with a
fault which disappears by itself. People take infinite pains to teach
small children to speak distinctly who, if left to themselves, would learn
it by themselves, provided they were always spoken to distinctly. This
same principle holds good of numerous other things, in children's attitude
and behaviour, that can be left simply to a good example and to time.
One's influence should be used in impressing upon the child habits for
which a foundation must be laid at the very beginning of his life.
There is another still more unfortunate mistake, the mistake of correcting
and judging by an external effect produced by the act, by the scandal it
occasions in the environment. Children are struck for using oaths and
improper words the meaning of which they do not understand; or if they do
understand, the result of strictness is only that they go on keeping
silence in matters in which sincerity towards those who are bringing them
up is of the highest importance. The very thing the child is allowed to do
uncorrected at home, is not seldom corrected if it happens away from home.
So the child gets a false idea that it is not the thing that deserves
punishment, but its publicity. When a mother is ashamed of the bad
behaviour of her son she is apt to strike him -- instead of striking her
own breast! When an adventurous feat fails he is beaten, but he is praised
when successful. These practices produce demoralisation. Once in a wood I
saw two parents laughing while the ice held on which their son was
sliding; when it broke suddenly they threatened to whip him. It required
strong self-control in order not to say to this pair that it was not the
son who deserved punishment but themselves.
On occasions like these, parents avenge their own fright on their
children. I saw a child become a coward because an anxious mother struck
him every time he fell down, while the natural result inflicted on the
child would have been more than sufficient to increase his carefulness.
When misfortune is caused by disobedience, natural alarm is, as a rule,
enough to prevent a repetition of it. If it is not sufficient blows have
no restraining effect; they only embitter. The boy finds that adults have
forgotten their own period of childhood; he withdraws himself secretly
from this abuse of power, provided strict treatment does not succeed in
totally depressing the level of the child's will and obstructing his
energies.
This is certainly a danger, but the most serious effect of corporal
punishment is that it has established an unethical morality as its result.
Until the human being has learnt to see that effort, striving, development
of power, are their own reward, life remains an unbeautiful affair. The
debasing effects of vanity and ambition, the small and great cruelties
produced by injustice, are all due to the idea that failure or success
sets the value to deeds and actions.
A complete revolution in this crude theory of value must come about before
the earth can become the scene of a happy but considerate development of
power on the part of free and fine human beings. Every contest decided by
examinations and prizes is ultimately an immoral method of training. It
awakens only evil passions, envy and the impression of injustice on the
one side, arrogance on the other. After I had during the course of twenty
years fought these school examinations, I read with thorough agreement a
short time ago, Ruskin's views on the subject. He believed that all
competition was a false basis of stimulus, and every distribution of
prizes a false means. He thought that the real sign of talent in a boy,
auspicious for his future career, was his desire to work for work's sake.
He declared that the real aim of instruction should be to show him his own
proper and special gifts, to strengthen them in him, not to spur him on to
an empty competition with those who were plainly his superiors in
capacity.
Moreover it ought not to be forgotten that success and failure involve of
themselves their own punishment and their own reward, the one bitter, the
other sweet enough to secure in a natural way increased strength, care,
prudence, and endurance. It is completely unnecessary for the educator to
use, besides these, some special punishments or special rewards, and so
pervert the conceptions of the child that failure seems to him to be a
wrong, success on the other hand as the right.
No matter where one turns one's gaze, it is notorious that the externally
encouraging or awe-inspiring means of education, are an obstacle to what
are the chief human characteristics, courage in oneself and goodness to
others.
A people whose education is carried on by gentle means only (I mean the
people of Japan), have shown that manliness is not in danger where
children are not hardened by corporal punishment. These gentle means are
just as effective in calling forth self-mastery and consideration. These
virtues are so imprinted on children, at the tenderest age, that one
learns first in Japan what attraction considerate kindliness bestows upon
life. In a country where blows are never seen, the first rule of social
intercourse is not to cause discomfort to others. It is told that when a
foreigner in Japan took up a stone to throw it at a dog, the dog did not
run. No one had ever thrown a stone at him. Tenderness towards animals is
the complement in that country of tenderness in human relationship, a
tenderness whose result is observed, among other effects, in a relatively
small number of crimes against life and security.
War, hunting for pleasure, corporal discipline, are nothing more than
different expressions of the tiger nature still alive in man. When the rod
is thrown away, and when, as some one has said, children are no longer
boxed on their ears but are given magnifying glasses and photographic
cameras to increase their capacity for life and for loving it, instead of
learning to destroy it, real education in humanity will begin.
For the benefit of those who are not convinced that corporal punishment
can be dispensed with in a manly education, by so remote and so distant an
example as Japan, I should like to mention a fact closer to us. Our
Germanic forefathers did not have this method of education. It was
introduced with Christianity. Corporal discipline was turned into a
religious duty, and as late as the seventeenth century there were
intelligent men who flogged their children once a week as a part of
spiritual guardianship. I once asked our great poet, Victor Rydberg, and
he said that he had found no proof that corporal punishment was usual
among the Germans in heathen times. I asked him whether he did not believe
that the fact of its absence had encouraged the energetic individualism
and manliness in the Northern peoples. He thought so, and agreed with me.
Finally, I might note from our own time, that there are many families and
schools, our girls' schools for example, and also boys' schools in some
countries, where corporal punishment is never used. I know a family with
twelve children whose activity and capacity are not damaged by bringing
them under the rule of duty alone. Corporal punishment is never used in
this home; a determined but mild mother has taught the children to obey
voluntarily, and has known how to train their wills to self-control.
By "voluntary obedience," I do not mean that the child is bound to ask
endless questions for reasons, and to dispute them before he obeys. A good
teacher never gives a command without there being some good reason, but
whether the child is convinced or not, he must always obey, and if he asks
"why" the answer is very simple; every one, adults as well as children,
must obey the right and must submit to what cannot be avoided. The great
necessity in life must be imprinted in childhood. This can be done without
harsh means by training the child, even previous to his birth, by
cultivating one's self-control, and after his birth by never giving in to
a child's caprices.
The rule is, in a few cases, to work in opposition to the action of the
child, but in other cases work constructively; I mean provide the child
with material to construct his own personality and then let him do this
work of construction. This is, in brief, the art of education. The worst
of all educational methods are threats. The only effective admonitions are
short and infrequent ones. The greatest skill in the educator is to be
silent for the moment and then so reprove the fault, indirectly, that the
child is brought to correct himself or make himself the object of blame.
This can be done by the instructor telling something that causes the child
to compare his own conduct with the hateful or admirable types of
behaviour about which he hears information. Or the educator may give an
opinion which the child must take to himself although it is not applied
directly to him.
On many occasions a forceful display of indignation on the part of the
elder person is an excellent punishment, if the indignation is reserved
for the right moment. I know children to whom nothing was more frightful
than their father's scorn; this was dreaded. Children who are deluged with
directions and religious devotions, who receive an ounce of morality in
every cup of joy, are most certain to be those who will revolt against all
this. Nearly every thinking person feels that the deepest educational
influences in his life have been indirect; some good advice not given to
him directly; a noble deed told without any direct reference. But when
people come themselves to train others they forget all their own personal
experience.
The strongest constructive factor in the education of a human being is the
settled, quiet order of home, its peace, and its duty. Open-heartedness,
industry, straightforwardness at home develop goodness, desire to work,
and simplicity in the child. Examples of artistic work and books in the
home, its customary life on ordinary days and holidays, its occupations
and its pleasures, should give to the emotions and imagination of the
child, periods of movement and repose, a sure contour and a rich colour.
The pure, warm, clear atmosphere in which father, mother, and children
live together in freedom and confidence; where none are kept isolated from
the interests of the others; but each possesses full freedom for his own
personal interest; where none trenches on the rights of others; where all
are willing to help one another when necessary, -- in this atmosphere
egoism, as well as altruism, can attain their richest development, and
individuality find its just freedom. As the evolution of man's soul
advances to undreamed-of possibilities of refinement, of capacity, of
profundity; as the spiritual life of the generation becomes more manifold
in its combinations and in its distinctions; the more time one has for
observing the wonderful and deep secrets of existence, behind the visible,
tangible, world of sense, the more will each new generation of children
show a more refined and a more consistent mental life. It is impossible to
attain this result under the torture of the crude methods in our present
home and school training. We need new homes, new schools, new marriages,
new social relations, for those new souls who are to feel, love, and
suffer, in ways infinitely numerous that we now can not even name. Thus
they will come to understand life; they will have aspirations and hopes;
they will believe; they will pray. The conceptions of religion, love, and
art, all these must be revolutionised so radically, that one now can only
surmise what new forms will be created in future generations. This
transformation can be helped by the training of the present, by casting
aside the withered foliage which now covers the budding possibilities of
life.
The house must once more become a home for the souls of children, not for
their bodies alone. For such homes to be formed, that in their turn will
mould children, the children must be given back to the home. Instead of
the study preparation at home for the school taking up, as it now does,
the best part of a child's life, the school must get the smaller part, the
home the larger part. The home will have the responsibility of so using
the free time as well on ordinary days as on holidays, that the children
will really become a part of the home both in their work and in their
pleasures. The children will be taken from the school, the street, the
factory, and restored to the home. The mother will be given back from work
outside, or from social life to the children. Thus natural training in the
spirit of Rousseau and Spencer will be realised; a training for life, by
life at home.
Such was the training of Old Scandanavia; the direct share of the child in
the work of the adult, in real labours and dangers, gave to the life of
our Scandanavian forefathers (with whom the boy began to be a man at
twelve years of age), unity, character, and strength. Things specially
made for children, the anxious watching over all their undertakings,
support given to all their steps, courses of work and pleasure specially
prepared for children, -- these are the fundamental defects of our present
day education. An eighteen-year-old girl said to me a short time ago, that
she and other girls of the same age were so tired of the system of
vigilance, protection, amusement, and pampering at school and at home,
that they were determined to bring up their own children in hunger,
corporal discipline, and drudgery.
One can understand this unfortunate reaction against an artificial
environment, the environment in which children and young people of the
present grow up; an existence that evokes a passionate desire for the
realities of life, for individual action at one's own risk and
responsibility, instead of being, as is now the case, at home and in the
school, the object of another's care.
What is required, above all, for the children of the present day, is to be
assigned again real home occupations, tasks they must do conscientiously,
habits of work arranged for week days and holidays without oversight, in
every case where the child can help himself. Instead of the modern school
child having a mother and servants about him to get him ready for school
and to help him to remember things, he should have time every day before
school to arrange his room and brush his clothes, and there should be no
effort to make him remember what is connected with the school. The home
and the school should combine together systematically to let the child
suffer for the results of his own negligence.
Just the reverse of this system rules to-day. Mothers learn their
children's lessons, invent plays for them, read their story books to them,
arrange their rooms after them, pick up what they have let fall, put in
order the things they have left in confusion, and in this and in other
ways, by protective pampering and attention, their desire for work, their
endurance, the gifts of invention and imagination, qualities proper to the
child, become weak and passive. The home now is only a preparation for
school. In it, young people growing up, are accustomed to receive
services, without performing any on their part. They are trained to be
always receptive instead of giving something in return. Then people are
surprised at a youthful generation, selfish and unrestrained, pressing
forward shamelessly on all occasions before their elders, crudely
unresponsive in respect of those attentions, which in earlier generations
were a beautiful custom among the young.
To restore this custom, all the means usually adopted now to protect the
child from physical and psychical dangers and inconveniences, will have to
be removed. Throw the thermometer out of the window and begin with a
sensible course of toughening; teach the child to know and to bear natural
pain. Corporal punishment must be done away with not because it is painful
but because it is profoundly immoral and hopelessly unsuitable. Repress
the egoistic demands of the child when he interferes with the work or rest
of others; never let him either by caresses or by nagging usurp the rights
of grown people; take care that the servants do not work against what the
parents are trying to insist on in this and in other matters.
We must begin in doing for the child in certain ways a thousand times more
and in others a hundred thousand times less. A beginning must be made in
the tenderest age to establish the child's feeling for nature. Let him
live year in and year out in the same country home; this is one of the
most significant and profound factors in training. It can be held to even
where it is now neglected. The same thing holds good of making a choice
library, commencing with the first years of life; so that the child will
have, at different periods of his life, suitable books for each age; not
as is now often the case, get quite spoilt by the constant change of
summer excursions, by worthless children's books, and costly toys. They
should never have any but the simplest books; the so-called classical
ones. They should be amply provided with means of preparing their own
playthings. The worst feature of our system are the playthings which
imitate the luxury of grown people. By such objects the covetous impulse
of the child for acquisition is increased, his own capacity for discovery
and imagination limited, or rather, it would be limited if children with
the sound instinct of preservation, did not happily smash the perfect
playthings, which give them no creative opportunity, and themselves make
new playthings from fir cones, acorns, thorns, and fragments of pottery,
and all other sorts of rubbish which can be transformed into objects of
great price by the power of the imagination.
To play with children in the right way is also a great art. It should
never be done if children do not themselves know what they are going to
do; it should always be a special treat for them as well as their elders.
But the adults must always on such occasions, leave behind every kind of
educational idea and go completely into the child's world of thought and
imagination. No attempt should be made to teach them at these times
anything else but the old satisfactory games. The experiences derived from
these games about the nature of the children, who are stimulated in one
direction or another by the game, must be kept for later use.
Games in this way increase confidence between children and adults. They
learn to know their elders better. But to allow children to turn all the
rooms into places to play in, and to demand constantly that their elders
shall interest themselves in them, is one of the most dangerous species of
pampering common to the present day. The children become accustomed to
selfishness and mental dependence. Besides this constant educational
effort brings with it the dulling of the child's personality. If children
were free in their own world, the nursery, but out of it had to submit to
the strict limits imposed by the habits, wills, work, and repose of
parents, their requirements and their wishes, they would develop into a
stronger and more considerate race than the youth of the present day. It
is not so much talking about being considerate, but the necessity of
considering others, of really helping oneself and others, that has an
educational value. In earlier days, children were quiet as mice in the
presence of elder persons. Instead of, as they do now, breaking into a
guest's conversation, they learned to listen. If the conversation of
adults is varied, this can be called one of the best educational methods
for children. The ordinary life of children, under the old system, was
lived in the nursery where they received their most important training
from an old faithful servant and from one another. From their parents they
received corporal punishment, sometimes a caress. In comparison with this
system, the present way of parents and children living together would be
absolute progress, if parents could but abstain from explaining, advising,
improving, influencing every thought and every expression. But all
spiritual, mental, and bodily protective rules make the child now
indirectly selfish, because everything centres about him and therefore he
is kept in a constant state of irritation. The six-year-old can disturb
the conversation of the adult, but the twelve-year-old is sent to bed
about eight o'clock, even when he, with wide open eyes, longs for a
conversation that might be to him an inspiring stimulus for life.
Certainly some simple habits so far as conduct and order, nourishment and
sleep, air and water, clothing and bodily movement, are concerned, can be
made the foundations for the child's conceptions of morality. He cannot be
made to learn soon enough that bodily health and beauty must be regarded
as high ethical characteristics, and that what is injurious to health and
beauty must be regarded as a hateful act. In this sphere, children must be
kept entirely independent of custom by allowing the exception to every
rule to have its valid place. The present anxious solicitude that children
should eat when the clock strikes, that they get certain food at fixed
meals, that they be clothed according to the degree of temperature, that
they go to bed when the clock strikes, that they be protected from every
drop of unboiled water and every extra piece of candy, this makes them
nervous, irritable slaves of habit. A reasonable toughening process
against the inequalities, discomforts, and chances of life, constitutes
one of the most important bases of joy of living and of strength of
temper. In this case too, the behaviour of the person who gives the
training, is the best means of teaching children to smile at small
contretemps, things which would throw a cloud over the sun, if one got
into the habit of treating them as if they were of great importance. If
the child sees the parent doing readily an unpleasant duty, which he
honestly recognises as unpleasant; if he sees a parent endure trouble or
an unexpected difficulty easily, he will be in honour bound to do the
like. Just as children without many words learn to practice good deeds
when they see good deeds practiced about them; learn to enjoy the beauty
of nature and art when they see that adults enjoy them, so by living more
beautifully, more nobly, more moderately, we speak best to children. They
are just as receptive to impressions of this kind as they are careless of
those made by force.
Since this is my alpha and omega in the art of education, I repeat now
what I said at the beginning of this book and half way through it. Try to
leave the child in peace; interfere directly as seldom as possible; keep
away all crude and impure impressions; but give all your care and energy
to see that personality, life itself, reality in its simplicity and in its
nakedness, shall all be means of training the child.
Make demands on the powers of children and on their capacity for self-
control, proportionate to the special stage of their development, neither
greater nor lesser demands than on adults. But respect the joys of the
child, his tastes, work, and time, just as you would those of an adult.
Education will thus become an infinitely simple and infinitely harder art,
than the education of the present day, with its artificialised existence,
its double entry morality, one morality for the child, and one for the
adult, often strict for the child and lax for the adult and vice versa. By
treating the child every moment as one does an adult human being we free
education from that brutal arbitrariness, from those over-indulgent
protective rules, which have transformed him. Whether parents act as if
children existed for their benefit alone, or whether the parents give up
their whole lives to their children, the result is alike deplorable. As a
rule both classes know equally little of the feelings and needs of their
children. The one class are happy when the children are like themselves,
and their highest ambition is to produce in their children a successful
copy of their own thoughts, opinions, and ideals. Really it ought to pain
them very much to see themselves so exactly copied. What life expected
from them and required from them was just the opposite -- a richer
combination, a better creation, a new type, not a reproduction of that
which is already exhausted. The other class strive to model their children
not according to themselves but according to their ideal of goodness. They
show their love by their willingness to extinguish their own personalities
for their children's sake. This they do by letting the children feel that
everything which concerns them stands in the foreground. This should be
so, but only indirectly.
The concerns of the whole scheme of life, the ordering of the home, its
habits, intercourse, purposes, care for the needs of children, and their
sound development, must stand in the foreground. But at present, in most
cases, children of tender years, as well as those who are older, are
sacrificed to the chaotic condition of the home. They learn self-will
without possessing real freedom, they live under a discipline which is
spasmodic in its application.
When one daughter after another leaves home in order to make herself
independent they are often driven to do it by want of freedom, or by the
lack of character in family life. In both directions the girl sees herself
forced to become something different, to hold different opinions, to think
different thoughts, to act contrary to the dictates of her own being. A
mother happy in the friendship of her own daughter, said not long ago that
she desired to erect an asylum for tormented daughters. Such an asylum
would be as necessary as a protection against pampering parents as against
those who are overbearing. Both alike, torture their children though in
different ways, by not understanding the child's right to have his own
point of view, his own ideal of happiness, his own proper tastes and
occupation. They do not see that children exist as little for their
parent's sake as parents do for their children's sake. Family life would
have an intelligent character if each one lived fully and entirely his own
life and allowed the others to do the same. None should tyrannise over,
nor should suffer tyranny from, the other. Parents who give their home
this character can justly demand that children shall accommodate
themselves to the habits of the household as long as they live in it.
Children on their part can ask that their own life of thought and feeling
shall be left in peace at home, or that they be treated with the same
consideration that would be given to a stranger. When the parents do not
meet these conditions they themselves are the greater sufferers. It is
very easy to keep one's son from expressing his raw views, very easy to
tear a daughter away from her book and to bring her to a tea-party by
giving her unnecessary occupations; very easy by a scornful word to
repress some powerful emotion. A thousand similar things occur every day
in good families through the whole world. But whenever we hear of young
people speaking of their intellectual homelessness and sadness, we begin
to understand why father and mother remain behind in homes from which the
daughters have hastened to depart; why children take their cares, joys,
and thoughts to strangers; why, in a word, the old and the young
generation are as mutually dependent as the roots and flowers of plants,
so often separate with mutual repulsion.
This is as true of highly cultivated fathers and mothers as of simple
bourgeois or peasant parents. Perhaps, indeed, it may be truer of the
first class, the latter torment their children in a naove way, while the
former are infinitely wise and methodical in their stupidity. Rarely is a
mother of the upper class one of those artists of home life who through
the blitheness, the goodness, and joyousness of her character, makes the
rhythm of everyday life a dance, and holidays into festivals. Such artists
are often simple women who have passed no examinations, founded no clubs,
and written no books. The highly cultivated mothers and the socially
useful mothers on the other hand are not seldom those who call forth
criticism from their sons. It seems almost an invariable rule that mothers
should make mistakes when they wish to act for the welfare of their sons.
"How infinitely valuable," say their children, "would I have found a
mother who could have kept quiet, who would have been patient with me, who
would have given me rest, keeping the outer world at a distance from me,
with kindly soothing hands. Oh, would that I had had a mother on whose
breast I could have laid my head, to be quiet and dream."
A distinguished woman writer is surprised that all of her well-thought-out
plans for her children fail -- those children in whom she saw the material
for her passion for governing, the clay that she desired to mould.
The writer just cited says very justly that maternal unselfishness alone
can perform the task of protecting a young being with wisdom and
kindliness, by allowing him to grow according to his own laws. The
unselfish mother, she says, will joyfully give the best of her life
energy, powers of soul and spirit to a growing being and then open all
doors to him, leaving him in the broad world to follow his own paths, and
ask for nothing, neither thanks, nor praise, nor remembrance. But to most
mothers may be applied the bitter exclamation of a son in the book just
mentioned, "even a mother must know how she tortures another; if she has
not this capacity by nature, why in the world should I recognise her as my
mother at all."
Certain mothers spend the whole day in keeping their children's nervous
system in a state of irritation. They make work hard and play joyless,
whenever they take a part in it. At the present time, too, the school gets
control of the child, the home loses all the means by which formerly it
moulded the child's soul life and ennobled family life. The school, not
father and mother, teaches children to play, the school gives them manual
training, the school teaches them to sing, to look at pictures, to read
aloud, to wander about out of doors; schools, clubs, sport and other
pleasures accustom youth in the cities more and more to outside life, and
a daily recreation that kills the true feeling for holiday. Young people,
often, have no other impression of home than that it is a place where they
meet society which bores them.
Parents surrender their children to schools in those years in which they
should influence their minds. When the school gives them back they do not
know how to make a fresh start with the children, for they themselves have
ceased to be young.
But getting old is no necessity; it is only a bad habit. It is very
interesting to observe a face that is getting old. What time makes out of
a face shows better than anything else what the man has made out of time.
Most men in the early period of middle age are neither intellectually fat
nor lean, they are hardened or dried up. Naturally young people look upon
them with unsympathetic eyes, for they feel that there is such a thing as
eternal youth, which a soul can win as a prize for its whole work of inner
development. But they look in vain for this second eternal youth in their
elders, filled with worldly nothingnesses and things of temporary
importance.
With a sigh they exclude the "old people" from their future plans and they
go out in the world in order to choose their spiritual parents.
This is tragic but just, for if there is a field on which man must sow a
hundred-fold in order to harvest tenfold it is the souls of children.
When I began at five years of age to make a rag doll, that by its weight
and size really gave the illusion of reality and bestowed much joy on its
young mother, I began to think about the education of my future children.
Then as now my educational ideal was that the children should be happy,
that they should not fear. Fear is the misfortune of childhood, and the
sufferings of the child come from the half-realised opposition between his
unlimited possibilities of happiness and the way in which these
possibilities are actually handled. It may be said that life, at every
stage, is cruel in its treatment of our possibilities of happiness. But
the difference between the sufferings of the adult from existence, and the
sufferings of the child caused by adults, is tremendous. The child is
unwilling to resign himself to the sufferings imposed upon him by adults
and the more impatient the child is against unnecessary suffering, the
better; for so much the more certainly will he some day be driven to find
means to transform for himself and for others the hard necessities of
life.
A poet, Rydberg, in our country who had the deepest intuition into child's
nature, and therefore had the deepest reverence for it, wrote as follows:
"Where we behold children we suspect there are princes, but as to the
kings, where are they?" Not only life's tragic elements diminish and dam
up its vital energies. Equally destructive is a parent's want of reverence
for the sources of life which meet them in a new being. Fathers and
mothers must bow their heads in the dust before the exalted nature of the
child. Until they see that the word "child" is only another expression for
the conception of majesty; until they feel that it is the future which in
the form of a child sleeps in their arms, and history which plays at their
feet, they will not understand that they have as little power or right to
prescribe laws for this new being as they possess the power or might to
lay down paths for the stars.
The mother should feel the same reverence for the unknown worlds in the
wide-open eyes of her child, that she has for the worlds which like white
blossoms are sprinkled over the blue orb of heaven; the father should see
in his child the king's son whom he must serve humbly with his own best
powers, and then the child will come to his own; not to the right of
asking others to become the plaything of his caprices but to the right of
living his full strong personal child's life along with a father and a
mother who themselves live a personal life, a life from whose sources and
powers the child can take the elements he needs for his own individual
growth. Parents should never expect their own highest ideals to become the
ideals of their child. The free-thinking sons of pious parents and the
Christian children of freethinkers have become almost proverbial.
But parents can live nobly and in entire accordance to their own ideals
which is the same thing as making children idealists. This can often lead
to a quite different system of thought from that pursued by the parent.
As to ideals, the elders should here as elsewhere, offer with timidity
their advice and their experience. Yes they should try to let the young
people search for it as if they were seeking fruit hidden under the shadow
of leaves. If their counsel is rejected, they must show neither surprise
nor lack of self-control.
The query of a humourist, why he should do anything for posterity since
posterity had done nothing for him, set me to thinking in my early youth
in the most serious way. I felt that posterity had done much for its
forefathers. It had given them an infinite horizon for the future beyond
the bounds of their daily effort. We must in the child see the new fate of
the human race; we must carefully treat the fine threads in the child's
soul because these are the threads that one day will form the woof of
world events. We must realise that every pebble by which one breaks into
the glassy depths of the child's soul will extend its influence through
centuries and centuries in ever widening circles. Through our fathers,
without our will and without choice, we are given a destiny which controls
the deepest foundation of our own being. Through our posterity, which we
ourselves create, we can in a certain measure, as free beings, determine
the future destiny of the human race.
By a realisation of all this in an entirely new way, by seeing the whole
process in the light of the religion of development, the twentieth century
will be the century of the child. This will come about in two ways. Adults
will first come to an understanding of the child's character and then the
simplicity of the child's character will be kept by adults. So the old
social order will be able to renew itself.
Psychological pedagogy has an exalted ancestry. I will not go back to
those artists in education called Socrates and Jesus, but I commence with
the modern world. In the hours of its sunrise, in which we, who look back,
think we see a futile Renaissance, then as now the spring flowers came up
amid the decaying foliage. At this period there came a demand for the
remodelling of education through the great figure of modern times,
Montaigne, that skeptic who had so deep a reverence for realities. In his
Essays, in his Letters to the Countess of Gurson, are found all of the
elements for the education of the future. About the great German and Swiss
specialists in pedagogy and psychology, Comenius, Basedow, Pestalozzi,
Salzmann, Froebel, Herbart, I do not need to speak. I will only mention
that the greatest men of Germany, Lessing, Herder, Goethe, Kant and
others, took the side of natural training. In regard to England it is well
known that John Locke in his Thoughts on Education, was a worthy
predecessor of Herbert Spencer, whose book on education in its
intellectual, moral, and physical relations, was the most noteworthy book
on education in the last century.
It has been noted that Spencer in educational theory is indebted to
Rousseau; and that in many cases, he has only said what the great German
authorities, whom he certainly did not know, said before him. But this
does not diminish Spencer's merit in the least. Absolutely new thoughts
are very rare. Truths which were once new must be constantly renewed by
being pronounced again from the depth of the ardent personal conviction of
a new human being.
That rational thoughts on the subject of pedagogy as on other subjects,
are constantly expressed and re-expressed, shows among other things that
reasonable, or practically untried education has certain principles which
are as axiomatic as those of mathematics. Every reasonable thinking man
must as certainly discover anew these pedagogical principles, as he must
discover anew the relation between the angles of a triangle. Spencer's
book it is true has not laid again the foundation of education. It can
rather be called the crown of the edifice founded by Montaigne, Locke,
Rousseau, and the great German specialists in pedagogy. What is an
absolutely novel factor in our times is the study of the psychology of the
child, and the system of education that has developed from it.
In England, through the scientist Darwin, this new study of the psychology
of the child was inaugurated. In Germany, Preyer contributed to its
extension. He has done so partly by a comprehensive study of children's
language, partly by collecting recollections of childhood on the part of
the adult. Finally he experimented directly on the child, investigating
his physical and psychical fatigue and endurance, acuteness of sensation,
power, speed, and exactness in carrying out physical and mental tasks. He
has studied his capacity of attention in emotions and in ideas at
different periods of life. He has studied the speech of children,
association of ideas in children, etc. During the study of the psychology
of the child, scholars began to substitute for this term the expression
"genetic psychology." For it was found that the big-genetic principle was
valid for the development both of the psychic and the physical life. This
principle means that the history of the species is repeated in the history
of the individual; a truth substantiated in other spheres; in philology
for example. The psychology of the child is of the same significance for
general psychology as embryology is for anatomy. On the other hand, the
description of savage peoples, of peoples in a natural condition, such as
we find in Spencer's Descriptive Sociology or Weitz's Anthropology is
extremely instructive for a right conception of the psychology of the
child.
It is in this kind of psychological investigation that the greatest
progress has been made in this century. In the great publication,
Zeitschrift fur psychologie, etc., there began in 1894 a special
department for the psychology of children and the psychology of education.
In 1898, there were as many as one hundred and six essays devoted to this
subject, and they are constantly increasing.
In the chief civilised countries this investigation has many distinguished
pioneers, such as Prof. Wundt, Prof. T. H. Ribot, and others. In Germany
this subject has its most important organ in the journal mentioned above.
It numbers among its collaborators some of the most distinguished German
physiologists and psychologists. As related to the same subject must be
mentioned Wundt's Philosophischen Studien, and partly the
Vierteljahrschrift fur Wissenschaftlichie Philosophie. In France, there
was founded in 1894, the Anne Psychologique, edited by Binet and Beaunis,
and also the Bibliotheque de Pedagogie et de Psychologie, edited by Binet.
In England there are the journals, Mind and Brain. Special laboratories
for experimental psychology with psychological apparatus and methods of
research are found in many places. In Germany the first to be founded was
that of Wundt in the year 1878 at Leipzig. France has a laboratory for
experimental psychology at Paris, in the Sorbonne, whose director is
Binet; Italy, one in Rome. In America experimental psychology is zealously
pursued. As early as 1894, there were in that country twenty-seven
laboratories for experimental psychology and four journals. There should
also be mentioned the societies for child psychology. Recently one has
been founded in Germany, others before this time have been at work in
England and America.
A whole series of investigations carried out in Kraepelin's laboratory in
Heidelberg are of the greatest value for determining what the brain can do
in the way of work and impressions.
An English specialist has maintained that the future, thanks to the modern
school system, will be able to get along without originally creative men,
because the receptive activities of modern man will absorb the cooperative
powers of the brain to the disadvantage of the productive powers. And even
if this were not a universally valid statement but only expressed a
physiological certainty, people will some day perhaps cease filing down
man's brain by that sandpapering process called a school curriculum.
A champion of the transformation of pedagogy into a psycho-physiological
science is to be found in Sweden in the person of Prof. Hjalmar Oehrwal
who has discussed in his essays native and foreign discoveries in the
field of psychology. One of his conclusions is that the so-called
technical exercises, gymnastics, manual training, sloyd, and the like, are
not, as they are erroneously called, a relaxation from mental overstrain
by change in work, but simply a new form of brain fatigue. All work, he
finds, done under conditions of fatigue is uneconomic whether one regards
the quantity produced or its value as an exercise. Rest should be nothing
more than rest, -- freedom to do only what one wants to, or to do nothing
at all. As to fear, he proves, following Binet's investigation in this
subject, how corporal discipline, threats, and ridicule lead to cowardice;
how all of these methods are to be rejected because they are depressing
and tend to a diminution of energy. He shows, moreover, how fear can be
overcome progressively, by strengthening the nervous system and in that
way strengthening the character. This result comes about partly when all
unnecessary terrorising is avoided, partly when children are accustomed to
bear calmly and quietly the inevitable unpleasantnesses of danger.
Prof. Axel Key's investigations on school children have won international
recognition. In Sweden they have supplied the most significant material up
to the present time for determining the influence of studies on physical
development and the results of intellectual overstrain.
It is to be hoped that when through empirical investigation we begin to
get acquainted with the real nature of children, the school and the home
will be freed from absurd notions about the character and needs of the
child, those absurd notions which now cause painful cases of physical and
psychical maltreatment, still called by conscientious and thinking human
beings in schools and in homes, education.
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